Blog Post #8

"Caring for your Introvert"

by Jonathan Rauch

Writing in your journal, explain whether you are an introvert or an extrovert. Cite examples to illustrate your characterization.

If I had to choose a side, I would say extrovert. Even though this author seemed to share dislike for extroverts, I think I am one. Jonathan Rauch said that a "common misconception (between introverts and extroverts) has to do with introverts being more intelligent, more reflective, more independent, more level-headed, more refined, and more sensitive than extroverts." I absolutely disagree. Just because extroverts enjoy spending time with others and having a good time, doesn't mean they are insensitive, dumb or bad listeners. It seemed very stereotypical.

As an extrovert I love spending time with people, getting to know them and having fun. But I also need my alone time, personal space and privacy or else I'll go crazy. It actually feels like a mixture of both lifestyles. An example of me being a extrovert might include my absolute love for boardgames. The reason I love playing boardgames is because of the time spent with friends and loved ones. Every morning when I wake up, I ask myself, "Why am I getting up this morning?" The answer is usually along the lines of "my friend needs me," or "my teacher is counting on me," or anything similar. This seems like an extrovert trait to me because I love pleasing those people.

Ever since I've been young, it has been really hard for me to be all alone. My mom used to think there was something wrong with me because, unlike myself, my mom is an introvert. Spending more than 20 minutes by myself was almost torture. As time has gone by, I have developed the need for personal space and privacy but it can only last for about a day or two. Longer than two days,without seeing people, might make me psycho. Another funny thing about me spending time alone, is the fact that I usually watch a movie or some type of TV show so the feeling that someone is in the room will always be there.

I am an extrovert and I am proud of it.